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Bar and Bat Mitzvah in Israel: The Ultimate Family Sourcebook,
by Deborah Rosenbloom and Judith Isaacson
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Double-Pronged Mitzvah

7: Gifts and More Gifts

6: Ben's Teffilin Tiyul

5: Bar Mitzvah Gibush

Bar Mitzvah in the Wake of Terrorism

4: The Magic Age of 13

3: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

2: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Lila's Bat Mitzvah. 1

New Online Diary: Ben's Bar Mitzvah

Online Diary of a Bat Mitzvah Planning Parent

Post Bat Mitzvah Reflections

Tefilin
Ben's Teffilin Tiyul


During the summer Ben was staying at his grandmother's house and found an old pair of teffilin that had belonged to his late grandfather. He (and we) hoped that they would be in good enough shape for him to use. Upon checking them a couple of months ago we discovered that in-fact the set were no longer kosher and could not be repaired.
We met with Rabbi Yerachmiel Askotsky who had not only quality teffilin but also a calm, relaxed and dignified attitude. We felt that his approach would be complimentary to our family when together with Ben we shared in the experience of learning and observing how teffilin are made.
On the seventh day of Chanukah, we went to Kiryat Yearim, where Rabbi Askotsky lives and works and saw how once the teffilin scrolls are written, they are then checked both by hand and on the computer, folded and prepared for daily use.
Benjamin's grandparents and Uncle who was visiting from the US, siblings, and parents all piled into the studio.
Benjamin led off the tiyul by explaining the wide variety of customs involved in tying the teffilin. He explained how small differences in the way a person wears teffilin can be traced to their ancestral towns. While teffilin may be wrapped either to or away from the heart, taken off at a different juncture in the prayer or an additional pair put on at the end of the prayers; Ben clearly explained that wearing teffilin is a law. As a law it must be strictly observed without any deviation or excuse for not wearing it. As a result we know that Benjamin will no longer sleep until noon...
We all learned a great deal about teffilin. I was so proud to observe Benjamin as he watched Rabbi Askotsky carefully and when numerous questions about teffilin were posed from the family, it was clear that Ben too knew the answers to the questions.
After the teffilin section of the tiyul we were all ready for lunch. We drove through Abu Gosh, past Ma'ale Hahmisha to Har Adar. There we all climbed to the top of the monument and Daniel, Ben's older brother, gave a detailed and interesting explanation about the history of the hill, and the region both in biblical times and over the last 150 years. While the group was taking in the breathtaking views, we set-up a delicious picnic lunch and then called it a day-a wonderful da
  • Text by M. Kaplan-Green.

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    Tefilin
    Ben's Teffilin Tiyul


    During the summer Ben was staying at his grandmother's house and found an old pair of teffilin that had belonged to his late grandfather. He (and we) hoped that they would be in good enough shape for him to use. Upon checking them a couple of months ago we discovered that in-fact the set were no longer kosher and could not be repaired.
    We met with Rabbi Yerachmiel Askotsky who had not only quality teffilin but also a calm, relaxed and dignified attitude. We felt that his approach would be complimentary to our family when together with Ben we shared in the experience of learning and observing how teffilin are made.
    On the seventh day of Chanukah, we went to Kiryat Yearim, where Rabbi Askotsky lives and works and saw how once the teffilin scrolls are written, they are then checked both by hand and on the computer, folded and prepared for daily use.
    Benjamin's grandparents and Uncle who was visiting from the US, siblings, and parents all piled into the studio.
    Benjamin led off the tiyul by explaining the wide variety of customs involved in tying the teffilin. He explained how small differences in the way a person wears teffilin can be traced to their ancestral towns. While teffilin may be wrapped either to or away from the heart, taken off at a different juncture in the prayer or an additional pair put on at the end of the prayers; Ben clearly explained that wearing teffilin is a law. As a law it must be strictly observed without any deviation or excuse for not wearing it. As a result we know that Benjamin will no longer sleep until noon...
    We all learned a great deal about teffilin. I was so proud to observe Benjamin as he watched Rabbi Askotsky carefully and when numerous questions about teffilin were posed from the family, it was clear that Ben too knew the answers to the questions.
    After the teffilin section of the tiyul we were all ready for lunch. We drove through Abu Gosh, past Ma'ale Hahmisha to Har Adar. There we all climbed to the top of the monument and Daniel, Ben's older brother, gave a detailed and interesting explanation about the history of the hill, and the region both in biblical times and over the last 150 years. While the group was taking in the breathtaking views, we set-up a delicious picnic lunch and then called it a day-a wonderful da
  • Text by M. Kaplan-Green.

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